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Nihilism isn’t about despair; it’s about liberation

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Enlightened Nihilism; A Synthesis of Existentialism and Shamanism

Nihilism in Shamanism

The concept of nihilism suggests that life is meaningless and lacks purpose. This idea may seem to contradict the core tenets of shamanic wisdom, which emphasizes the interconnectedness and sacredness of all life. However, upon closer examination, there are subtle parallels between these seemingly divergent worldviews.

Shamanic traditions recognize the impermanence of existence and that everything is constantly changing and evolving. This recognition of impermanence can lead to disillusionment with the material world and its temporary pleasures, which aligns with some aspects of nihilism.

However, shamanic wisdom also emphasizes the cyclical nature of existence, suggesting that death is a transition to another phase of being rather than an end. This cyclical perspective offers a counterbalance to the nihilistic view of life as meaningless, since it suggests that there is an ongoing pattern of creation, destruction, and renewal.

Furthermore, shamanic practices involve journeys into non-ordinary states of consciousness, where individuals encounter the spirit realms and gain insights into the nature of reality. These experiences can challenge conventional notions of meaning and purpose, leading to a deeper understanding of the interconnectedness of all things and the underlying unity of existence.

In this sense, shamanic wisdom can be seen as a kind of “enlightened nihilism,” one that embraces impermanence and interconnectedness while simultaneously recognizing the inherent value and sacredness of life. This perspective allows individuals to navigate the complexities of existence with equanimity and authenticity, even in the face of challenges and suffering.

Therefore, while nihilism and shamanic wisdom may appear to be opposing worldviews, there are underlying parallels that suggest they are not entirely incompatible. Shamanic wisdom, with its emphasis on impermanence, interconnectedness, and the cyclical nature of existence, provides a framework for approaching nihilism in a more nuanced and enlightened way.

Nihilism in Existential Philosophy

Nihilism is a complex and multifaceted philosophical concept that has been explored by various thinkers throughout history. In the context of existential philosophy, nihilism is often understood as the belief that life is meaningless and devoid of inherent purpose. This perspective challenges traditional notions of meaning and value, prompting individuals to question the foundations of their existence.

Existentialist philosophers have grappled with nihilism in various ways, recognizing its potential to lead to despair and apathy, but also seeing it as an opportunity for personal growth and authenticity. They have explored the implications of a meaningless universe and the challenges of creating meaning in a world that appears indifferent to human concerns.

One of the central figures in existentialism, Friedrich Nietzsche, argued that nihilism is a necessary step in the development of a truly authentic human being. He believed that confronting the absurdity of existence was essential for individuals to break free from the constraints of societal norms and conventional morality. By embracing nihilism, individuals could forge their own values and create their own sense of meaning, rather than relying on external sources.

Other existentialist thinkers, such as Jean-Paul Sartre and Albert Camus, also engaged with nihilism, exploring its implications for human existence. Sartre emphasized the importance of individual choice and responsibility in a world without inherent meaning. He argued that individuals must create their own values and define their own purpose, even in the face of absurdity. Camus, on the other hand, focused on the need to find meaning in the midst of suffering and death. He believed that individuals could find meaning in their actions, relationships, and creative endeavors, even as they acknowledged the inherent meaninglessness of the universe.

Existentialism’s engagement with nihilism has had a profound impact on modern thought. It has challenged traditional assumptions about meaning, value, and existence, prompting individuals to reconsider their own relationship with the world. While nihilism can be a source of despair, it can also be a catalyst for personal transformation and growth. By grappling with nihilism, individuals can develop a deeper understanding of themselves and the world around them, and they can create their own meaning and purpose in a seemingly meaningless universe.

Enlightened Nihilism; A Synthesis of Existentialism and Shamanism

Nihilism, the philosophical belief that life is meaningless and without inherent purpose, has long been a source of existential angst for many individuals. However, in recent years, a new perspective on nihilism has emerged, one that seeks to reconcile the seemingly contradictory worldviews of existentialism and shamanism. This perspective, known as enlightened nihilism, offers a path to meaning and purpose in a world without inherent meaning, while also respecting the sacredness of existence.

At the heart of enlightened nihilism lies the recognition of impermanence, the constant flux and change that characterize all aspects of existence. This recognition, drawn from shamanic traditions, challenges the notion of an enduring self or a fixed reality. Instead, it suggests that we are constantly evolving and transforming and that our identities and experiences are fluid and ever-changing.

Emerging from this understanding of impermanence is the embrace of interconnectedness, a concept central to both existentialism and shamanism. Enlightened nihilists recognize that all beings are intimately connected, bound together by a web of relationships and influences. This interconnectedness extends beyond the human realm, encompassing the natural world and the cosmos as a whole.

The recognition of impermanence and interconnectedness leads to an appreciation for the cyclical nature of existence, a concept prevalent in shamanic worldviews. This cyclical perspective suggests that death is not an end but rather a transition to another phase of being, a continuation of the journey of existence.

Drawing from existential philosophy, enlightened nihilism emphasizes the importance of individual choice and responsibility in a world without inherent meaning. Individuals are not bound by external dictates or predetermined destinies. Instead, they are free to create their own values and define their own purpose, even in the face of the challenges and uncertainties of existence.

In this context, the concept of sacredness takes on a new meaning. Enlightened nihilists recognize the profound mystery and wonder of the universe, but they do not ascribe it to a divine or supernatural force. Instead, they see the sacredness inherent in all aspects of existence, from the smallest atom to the vast expanse of the cosmos.

Enlightened nihilism is not a passive acceptance of meaninglessness. Instead, it is an active embrace of the challenges and possibilities inherent in a world without inherent meaning. It is a way of approaching life with authenticity and openness, without the need for external validation or predetermined goals.

Enlightened nihilism offers a way to navigate the complexities of existence with a sense of equanimity and authenticity, even in the face of challenges and suffering. By embracing the impermanence, interconnectedness, and cyclical nature of existence, individuals can create their own meaning and purpose in a seemingly meaningless universe. They can approach life with a sense of wonder and curiosity, appreciating the sacredness inherent in all aspects of existence.

Who is the final victory?

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In the dance of existence, where the threads of existential philosophy intertwine with the rhythms of shamanic wisdom, a profound understanding emerges – that nature, as the primordial force, stands as the ultimate victor. Within the tapestry of time, the ancient pulse of life beats through the roots of the oldest and most enduring system: nature itself.

In the journey of man, true victory is not found in conquest or dominion over nature, but in alignment with its timeless wisdom. The echoes of shamanic teachings remind us that to attain true harmony, one must synchronize with the primal heartbeat of the Earth, recognizing the interconnectedness of all life.

Existential contemplation leads us to the realization that the pursuit of meaning and authenticity is intricately woven into the fabric of nature’s design. Man’s triumph lies not in the imposition of will upon the world, but in surrendering to the ancient flow of existence – a surrender that paradoxically grants him a sense of profound empowerment.

As we navigate the complexities of our human existence, embracing the profound interconnectedness with nature becomes a key to unlocking the gates of true victory. The shamanic lens teaches us that in the quiet embrace of the natural order, man finds purpose, understanding, and a deep sense of belonging.

In the grand theater of existence, where the play of shadows and light unfolds, the enduring wisdom of nature prevails. It beckons us to transcend the illusions of separateness, inviting us to dance with the ancient rhythms that echo through the eons. Man’s true victory lies not in mastering nature, but in becoming attuned to its everlasting song – a song that whispers the secrets of a timeless triumph for those who listen with the heart.

A letter to my son

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Little adventurer, happy birthday

As you begin another year of your life, I remember how curious, flexible, and curious you have always been. As you navigate the wild jungle of adolescence, I want to share some insights that lie at the heart of the human experience—the four principles of human existence.

The first principle is the essence of being human – the freedom to choose our path. This freedom is both liberating and scary, but it makes us unique. It is your choice to immerse yourself in life experiences, learn from your mistakes, and shape your destiny.

My son, with freedom comes responsibility. Every decision and every action has its consequences. We are responsible for our words, actions, and ultimately our happiness. Remember that you have the power to change your life and the lives of others. Accept that responsibility with courage and honesty.

My dear, life is not a random series of events; The masterpiece is woven with meaning. We create meaning through our experiences, connections, and contributions to the world. By exploring your passion, values, and purpose, you will find the unique meaning that shapes your being.

My hero, the transience of life is a stark reminder of our precious time. Although this may sound scary, it also acts as a catalyst for living fully and authentically. Embrace the moment, cherish the relationships that matter, and pursue your dreams with unrelenting passion.

Parsa, these four principles are philosophical reflections and the foundation of human experience. Accept them and begin your journey to self-discovery, purpose, and meaningful relationships.

Happy birthday my wonderful child. Shine your light on the world and never forget that you are wonderful.

With great love,
Your father and existential guide

Gambling Addiction from the Existential Perspective

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Introduction

Existential therapy, a branch of humanistic psychology, emphasizes the search for meaning and purpose in a person’s life. It focuses on the challenges of freedom, responsibility, isolation, and meaninglessness. From this perspective, gambling addiction can be seen as an attempt to cope with these existential anxieties and fill the void in a person’s life.

The Anxiety of Freedom and Responsibility

Gambling offers the illusion of control and predictability in a world that is often seen as unpredictable and uncontrollable. By placing bets and making predictions, people may experience a temporary sense of mastery over their lives. This can be especially appealing for those who are struggling with feelings of helplessness and lack of control in other areas of their lives.

In existential therapy, the concept of “anxiety of freedom and responsibility” refers to the inherent fear that arises from awareness of one’s independence and the burden of choices that come with it. This anxiety arises from the realization that we are ultimately responsible for our lives, our actions, and the consequences thereof. This inherent freedom, while liberating, can be simultaneously overwhelming, as it confronts us with a range of possibilities and the difficult task of making meaningful decisions.

Existential therapists view this anxiety as a natural and inevitable aspect of human existence. It is not a sign of illness but rather a reflection of the human condition, a constant reminder of our power to shape our lives. However, when this anxiety becomes excessive, it can lead to maladaptive behaviors such as avoidance, escape, or addiction.

In the context of gambling addiction, anxiety about freedom and responsibility can manifest in several ways. For example, people may turn to gambling to escape from feeling overwhelmed by their choices and the burden of responsibility. The excitement of gambling, the momentary rush of excitement from winning, and the illusion of control can provide temporary relief from these anxieties. However, this escape is short-lived and destructive, as it reinforces the underlying anxiety and impedes the person’s ability to make responsible decisions.

Existential therapists address the anxiety of freedom and responsibility by helping people develop a sense of self-acceptance and authenticity. This includes embracing the inherent anxiety of choice and responsibility while also becoming aware of the capacity for growth and personal transformation. Therapists encourage clients to engage in self-exploration, exploration of values, and making decisions that are aligned with their authentic selves.

By helping people confront their anxiety and accept their freedom, existential therapists empower them to take responsibility for their lives and make decisions that lead to a more fulfilling and meaningful existence.

Existential Isolation and Loneliness

Gambling can provide a temporary sense of belonging and connection for people who are feeling lonely or isolated, especially for those who do not have strong social networks. The exciting and supportive atmosphere in casinos, online betting forums, or social gambling groups can be appealing for people who lack strong social support. However, this false sense of belonging can ultimately exacerbate feelings of loneliness and isolation after the gambling activity is over.

Existential isolation refers to the inherent aloneness of human existence, the realization that each individual is ultimately alone in their experiences and interpretations of the world. This sense of loneliness arises from the fundamental reality that we cannot fully understand or share the experiences of others. Our subjective experiences are unique, and shaped by our individual perspectives, beliefs, and emotions.

Existential isolation, while a universal human experience, can be exacerbated when people feel disconnected from others or struggle to find meaning and purpose in their lives. This can lead to feelings of loneliness, emptiness, and a sense of being lost in the world.

Existential isolation can play a role in gambling addiction in a number of ways. Initially, gambling can serve as a way to cope with feelings of loneliness and isolation. People may turn to gambling to find a sense of belonging and acceptance. The exciting and supportive atmosphere in casinos, online betting forums, or social gambling groups can be appealing to people who lack strong social support. However, this false sense of belonging can ultimately exacerbate feelings of loneliness and isolation after the gambling activity is over.

On the other hand, gambling addiction can contribute to feelings of existential isolation. Gambling can alienate a person from others and the world around them. People who are addicted to gambling may spend a great deal of time gambling and withdraw from other activities that could connect them with others. This can lead to feelings of further isolation and disconnection.

Existential therapists address existential isolation in gambling addiction in some ways.

Creating a sense of belonging and acceptance in the therapeutic environment is one of these methods. Existential therapists strive to create a safe and supportive space where people who are addicted to gambling can experience a sense of belonging and acceptance. This can be done through group activities, individual conversations, or other methods.

Helping people to identify and develop meaningful relationships is another way that existential therapists help people to create meaningful relationships with

Embracing the Power of Indeterminate Subjective Truth: A Journey Beyond Objectivity

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Introduction:
In a world that often prioritizes concrete and measurable things, there is a realm beyond facts and figures – the realm of indeterminate subjective truth. As an existentialist psychotherapist, I invite you to embark on a journey of self-discovery and explore the profound significance of subjective truth. It holds a unique and superior power over its more concrete counterpart, objective truth.

Breaking Down the Binary:
Our society has long been obsessed with objective truth – the idea that there is an absolute reality, untouched by individual perspectives. While this approach provides stability and structure, it often overlooks the rich tapestry of our personal experiences. Indeterminate subjective truth challenges this binary opposition between objective and subjective, offering a more nuanced and holistic perspective.

The Subjectivity Paradox:
Existentialist psychotherapy recognizes the subjectivity paradox – the idea that our individual experiences, feelings, and perceptions hold a truth that is both unique and universally resonant. Objective truth seeks to establish a single, concrete reality, while indeterminate subjective truth embraces the idea that our truths can coexist in a tapestry of diverse perspectives, each contributing to the greater understanding of the human experience.

The Liberation of Personal Truth:
Indeterminate subjective truth’s inherent strength lies in its liberating quality. Acknowledging and embracing our personal truths allows us to break free from societal expectations and predefined norms. This liberation fosters authenticity and empowers us to live more fulfilling and genuine lives.

The Fluidity of Truth:
Unlike objective truth, which can be rigid and unyielding, indeterminate subjective truth thrives on its fluid nature. Our experiences, emotions, and perspectives are dynamic, evolving with time and circumstance. Recognizing the fluidity of our personal truths opens us up to growth, resilience, and a deeper connection with the ever-changing world around us.

Embracing the Journey:
In the pursuit of indeterminate subjective truth, we embark on a journey of self-discovery and self-acceptance. This journey requires a willingness to explore the depths of our own consciousness, challenge preconceived notions, and cultivate a genuine connection with our authentic selves. Through this introspective journey, we uncover the profound beauty and importance of our indeterminate subjective truths.

Conclusion:
In a world that craves certainty and clarity, embracing indeterminate subjective truth offers a refreshing perspective. Celebrating the uniqueness of our personal truths and recognizing their profound importance and superiority over the limitations of objective reality enriches our individual lives and contributes to the collective tapestry of human experience. The beauty lies in the diversity of our subjective truths.

Embracing Life’s Rollercoaster: Navigating Bipolar Personality Disorder from an Existential Perspective

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Welcome back to our journey through existential therapy! In this article, we will delve into the complex world of bipolar personality disorder from an existential standpoint. If you have been following our previous posts, you already know that existential therapy emphasizes the importance of individual experience, freedom, and responsibility. Today, we will explore how these existential principles can guide individuals in coping with bipolar personality disorder and living a meaningful life.

Living with bipolar personality disorder can be a rollercoaster ride, but an existential perspective offers a unique lens through which individuals can find purpose and meaning in their journey. Remember that every person's experience is unique, and there is no one-size-fits-all approach. By embracing freedom, responsibility, authenticity, and the present moment, individuals can navigate their bipolar disorder with resilience and discover a fulfilling life.
Existential therapy recognizes the importance of human connection. Encourage individuals with bipolar disorder to reach out for support from friends, family, and mental health professionals. Connection with others can be a powerful source of strength and understanding.

Understanding Bipolar Personality Disorder:
Before we embark on our existential journey, it is crucial to have a basic understanding of bipolar personality disorder. Bipolar disorder is characterized by extreme mood swings, from the highs of mania to the lows of depression. People with bipolar disorder often struggle with their emotional states, making it a challenging condition to navigate. However, existential therapy offers a unique perspective on how to approach these challenges.

Embracing Freedom and Responsibility:
Existential therapy reminds us that we have the freedom to define our lives despite the circumstances. People with bipolar personality disorder often face the challenge of managing their moods, but they can still take responsibility for their responses to these mood swings. Encourage individuals to recognize their agency in making choices and seeking help when needed.

Emphasizing Authenticity:
Existential therapy emphasizes the importance of living an authentic life. People with bipolar disorder may sometimes feel as though their moods define them. Encourage them to explore their true selves beyond their mental health condition. Help them identify their values, interests, and passions, and support them in pursuing a life that aligns with their authentic self.

Embracing the Present Moment:
Existential therapy teaches us to focus on the present moment, as it is the only moment we truly have control over. For individuals with bipolar personality disorder, this can mean learning to manage their emotions in the here and now. Teach mindfulness techniques and help them develop strategies for grounding themselves when they experience mood swings.

Finding Meaning in the Struggle:
Existential therapy acknowledges that life can be filled with suffering and challenges. Encourage individuals with bipolar disorder to find meaning in their struggles. Help them explore how their experiences, even the difficult ones, contribute to their personal growth and development.

Seeking Support:
Existential therapy recognizes the importance of human connection. Encourage individuals with bipolar disorder to reach out for support from friends, family, and mental health professionals. Connection with others can be a powerful source of strength and understanding.

Conclusion:
Living with bipolar personality disorder can be a rollercoaster ride, but an existential perspective offers a unique lens through which individuals can find purpose and meaning in their journey. Remember that every person’s experience is unique, and there is no one-size-fits-all approach. By embracing freedom, responsibility, authenticity, and the present moment, individuals can navigate their bipolar disorder with resilience and discover a fulfilling life.

In our next article, we will explore how existential therapy can help individuals cope with anxiety and find existential meaning in the face of this common mental health challenge. Stay tuned for more insights into the world of existential therapy!

Embracing Your Unique Perspective: The Essence of Existential Therapy

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In our fast-paced, data-driven world, we often find ourselves chasing objectivity like a distant mirage in the desert. We’re told that facts and figures hold the key to understanding our lives, but what if I told you that the most profound truths lie within your own subjectivity? As an existential therapist, I invite you to explore the realness of your subjectivity and the surprising unreality of objectivity. By the time you finish reading this, you might just be curious enough to begin or continue your journey with existential therapy.

In our fast-paced, data-driven world, we often find ourselves chasing objectivity like a distant mirage in the desert. We're told that facts and figures hold the key to understanding our lives, but what if I told you that the most profound truths lie within your own subjectivity?

Subjectivity: Your Uniquely Real World

Imagine viewing the world through a pair of glasses that only you possess. These glasses are tinted with your experiences, beliefs, and emotions – they shape everything you see. This is your subjectivity, your unique lens through which you experience the world.

Objectivity, as we commonly understand it, suggests an impartial, universally true view of reality. But here’s the secret: such objectivity is a myth. Every piece of information, every experience, is filtered through our subjectivity. It’s not a flaw; it’s what makes us human.

Existential Therapy’s Reality Check

Existential therapy doesn’t just acknowledge subjectivity; it celebrates it. It recognizes that your experiences, no matter how different they may be from others’, are valid and meaningful. Instead of attempting to escape subjectivity, existential therapy encourages you to dive deep into it, exploring your thoughts, feelings, and beliefs without judgment.

The Quest for Meaning

At the heart of existential therapy lies the quest for meaning. It’s about grappling with the big questions: Who am I? What is my purpose? What truly matters to me? In the realm of subjectivity, these questions aren’t met with one-size-fits-all answers. Your meaning is as unique as your fingerprint.

Freedom and Responsibility

Existential therapy champions our freedom to choose and the responsibility that accompanies it. You have the power to shape your own life, but with that power comes the weight of making authentic choices. It can be both liberating and challenging to embrace this existential truth.

The Power of Simple Words: Bridging Understanding in Existential Psychotherapy

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In the realm of existential psychotherapy, the words we use hold a unique significance. They are the bridge that connects our inner worlds, emotions, and experiences with the external reality. However, in a world where language is rich with diverse interpretations and nuanced meanings, the importance of breaking down complex words into simple, universally understood terms cannot be overstated.

Consider the word “oppressed.” To one person, it might conjure images of social injustice and systemic inequality, while to another, it may evoke personal experiences of feeling trapped in a suffocating job or relationship. When someone says, “I was oppressed,” the listener interprets this word through the lens of their own experiences, often leading to misunderstandings, miscommunication, and the potential for friction in conversations.

The Power of Simple Words

Now, let’s contrast this with a word that carries a universally consistent meaning: “dying.” When people hear or read this word, whether in a conversation or a book, a nearly identical interpretation emerges in their minds. The concept of dying is one of the few that remain largely untouched by the individual nuances of personal experience. It’s a word that connects us on a fundamental level, transcending cultural, social, and personal differences.

Why is this distinction crucial in the practice of existential psychotherapy? Simply put, it’s because clarity in communication is the cornerstone of successful therapy. As existential psychotherapists, our goal is to help individuals navigate their inner worlds, confront existential dilemmas, and find meaning in their lives. To do so effectively, we must strip away the layers of subjective interpretation that can obscure the true essence of a person’s experience.

Consider a client who feels “trapped.” Is this a metaphorical entrapment within their own mind, or does it signify a concrete, external situation? By breaking down the word “trapped” into simpler, universally understood terms, we can ask more specific questions: “Do you feel restricted? Are there external circumstances that make you feel confined?” This approach ensures that both therapist and client are on the same page, speaking the same language.

In existential psychotherapy, embracing simple and universally understood words is not about oversimplification but rather about enhancing the depth of our interactions. By using words like “dying” instead of euphemisms or ambiguous terms, we create a shared foundation upon which to build understanding and meaning. It allows us to explore the fundamental human experiences without the interference of personal interpretations.

So, why might you consider consulting an existential psychotherapist? In the process of therapy, you’ll find that I am here to guide you through these essential conversations. Together, we’ll navigate the complex terrain of existence, using clear and universally understood language to unravel the complexities of your unique journey. Whether you seek clarity on life’s purpose, meaning, or challenges, I am here to help you bridge the gap between words and understanding, making the abstract tangible, and the existential more approachable.

In conclusion, the power of simple words in existential psychotherapy is undeniable. It’s a means to foster understanding, empathy, and connection in a world where language can often be a barrier. By embracing the universality of certain words, we create a foundation upon which we can explore the depths of human experience. So, let’s start the conversation with clear, simple words, and together, we’ll unlock the profound insights that lie within us all.

About Me

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Welcome to my website, where you can learn more about me and my existential therapy services. I am Dr. Aref Rezazadeh, a psychologist with a PhD in general psychology and a specialization in existential therapy. Existential therapy is a form of psychotherapy that helps people explore and confront the fundamental questions of existence, such as: Who am I? What is the meaning of my life? How do I deal with the challenges and uncertainties of life? Existential therapy is based on the philosophy of existentialism, which I have studied extensively for many years. I have also lived and worked in different countries and cultures, which has enriched my understanding and appreciation of human diversity and uniqueness. I have experience in treating various psychological issues, such as depression, anxiety, trauma, addiction, relationship problems, identity issues, and more. I offer individual and group therapy for clients who live in Iran or abroad. I also provide online counseling for clients who prefer this mode of communication. My goal is to help you find your own answers and solutions to your problems, and to support you in living a meaningful and authentic life. On this website, you will find information about my services, my fees, and how to contact me. You will also find articles and resources about existential therapy and how it can help you with different mental health conditions. Whether you are a therapist looking for guidance or a client looking for help, I hope you will find this website useful and informative. Please feel free to reach out to me if you have any questions or comments. I look forward to hearing from you and working with you.